I think the fact of the matter is that you rarely get to the top of the world by being Mr. Nice Guy all the time. I hold that if another country was in America's shoes, they would behave similarly - maybe some a little better, and many others terribly worse. Just look through history. Ever since, hell, I dunno', Egypt, world powers have done what they can to gain power and hold onto it. I don't really consider myself all that much of a patriot, but what bothers me sometimes is when Europeans get a holier than thou attitude and it wasn't that long ago that they had huge empires and oppressed/took advantage of practically everyone in the southern hemisphere, not to mention they were pretty much behind the worst wars the world has ever seen. I'm not accusing anyone in this thread, just kind of thinking out loud.
Also, I really care about what happens in my home state, where I and the people I really care about live. When our beaches are closed and we have warnings that a tsunami (!?!?!?) could hit us, and that our boats are sinking, then I don't mind seeing that on the news... if I really watched the news, that is : p
Not that I'm saying our situation is comparable at all with Japan's, but still.