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Title: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Inccubus on March 16, 2013, 03:30:16 PM
It's been just about 2 years since I got divorced. I realize I'm finally over her. However, I'm starting to feel the need to share some of myself with someone. I've come a long way in these last two years, but I have a long way to go yet. Sometimes I feel it would be nice to have someone to share that with. On the other hand, being single has been fun. I've tried lots of new things, traveled a little and even met one of my life goals. Plus, the longer I spend in South Florida, the more I feel like I'm not likely to find someone down here. Probably doesn't help that I'm most attracted to pale-skinned, red-headed, pagan/Wiccan, artsy, hippie chicks.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 16, 2013, 04:09:47 PM
It's been just about 2 years since I got divorced. I realize I'm finally over her. However, I'm starting to feel the need to share some of myself with someone. I've come a long way in these last two years, but I have a long way to go yet. Sometimes I feel it would be nice to have someone to share that with. On the other hand, being single has been fun. I've tried lots of new things, traveled a little and even met one of my life goals. Plus, the longer I spend in South Florida, the more I feel like I'm not likely to find someone down here. Probably doesn't help that I'm most attracted to pale-skinned, red-headed, pagan/Wiccan, artsy, hippie chicks.


Ahh I feel you on this one I'm getting older and I find my self wanting to have that special someone granted I'm only 21 but still... I try to talk to the girls in my class(even got a number or two from asking granted one all ready had a BF I hate that so much) , but I realize that I need to concentrate on bettering my self in other words, standing on my own two feet and being by my self. So in the end I want a girlfriend badly but the way I am right now( a college student)  I do not think it's possible. By the time I'm 25 I want to be ready  for babies and everything. Yes I am all for commitment.

As for my type of girls I tend to like most. I like Caucasian women with short/ semi long brown hair. But recently having a smaller chest along side which I just mentioned has been turning me on. I love busoms, big one at that but, some of these smaller ones with that short hair is just... size is starting to not matter much to me.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Laina on March 16, 2013, 11:28:03 PM
Probably doesn't help that I'm most attracted to pale-skinned, red-headed, pagan/Wiccan, artsy, hippie chicks.

Swap out certain parts of that with 'strawberry blonde' & 'open minded Christian' & you have wittle ol' me. :3

Lady wise, I'm not very particular at all on looks. If our personalities mesh I'm smitten. Though I will say I like the smaller breasted ones. I dated an ex stripper once with a 36B cup-firm, perky, just...beautiful. And she was a mom too, so I guess that was just a testament to her body.

With dudes though I like black/dark brown hair & olive undertones or a slight tan are good. I must say I do have an attraction to thin men, but that's not really a must have-I've been with larger fellows & loved every minute just the same as my time with the rail thin ones. I also prefer not so hairy guys, but again, that's very much negotiable if I like you.

You both seem like upstanding gents, for reals. I'm sure you'll find the Alice to your Alan Wake someday. I went through a bad break up at this time 3 years ago & it was pretty...well, pretty fucking dark. Like, heinously so. But things improve; just keep it up & it all works out in the end. I'm read to settle down myself, I just feel like I've gotta work on me a little first before I can be good for someone else.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Bloodreign on March 16, 2013, 11:51:35 PM
Eh I just got out of a relationship 6 months ago with an older woman I dated for 3 years......she was quite odd, and I always thought I was crazier than her. She kinda made me look normal.

For now it's back to single me and independent me, all I have to care about is me.

PS: she had big boobs too, while nice, more than a mouthful is a waste. She was also thick, something I'm ok with, more woman to hold on to. I don't mind small boobs on a woman at all.

That is your PSA of the day.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Abnormal Freak on March 17, 2013, 12:05:23 AM
I like non-ghetto black women

which if I ever were to marry one, we'd have some pretty ugly kids I'd wager considering I'm super pale and red-haired.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Laina on March 17, 2013, 12:12:03 AM
I like non-ghetto black women

which if I ever were to marry one, we'd have some pretty ugly kids I'd wager considering I'm super pale and red-haired.

LIES & SLANDER, MY GOOD SIR!...possibly. I say so because some of the absolute prettiest children I ever saw in my life were the product of a ginger-ish male & his ebony princess. Medium bordering on light brown skin with this BEAUTIFUL brown hair graced with a red tint all over-reminded me of a sunset on the sahara. The eldest daughter had light colored eyes too-just gorgeous children. Don't sell yourself short.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Abnormal Freak on March 17, 2013, 12:16:43 AM
I guess I've never seen the product of dark meeting so-much-light, just assumed. :p Maybe it would work out all right and I'll meet my chocolate dreamgirl. :o At Best Buy the other day I wanted to jump over the counter and steal the major cutie working the register. Gorgeous smile on that one.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 02:00:10 AM
Swap out certain parts of that with 'strawberry blonde' & 'open minded Christian' & you have wittle ol' me. :3



With dudes though I like black/dark brown hair & olive undertones or a slight tan are good. I must say I do have an attraction to thin men, but that's not really a must have-I've been with larger fellows & loved every minute just the same as my time with the rail thin ones. I also prefer not so hairy guys, but again, that's very much negotiable if I like you.



I think you just described me  :P  I am  half black and half white more specifically Belizean and italian,german(my last name is german), and a bit of french so not only do I have dark brown hair( my is curly but I got a hair cut and am now regrowing it and my "manly facesweater"    ;) as well) and I'm light skinned as well I also have that olive undertone due to me being Italian. I have always been a large set guy but, I am active.

In HS I did football(O-liner and D liner heck I got my own ring) and lacrosse(was a defender I even won an inspirational award  but they did miss spell my name for losing over 100 pounds and I've kept it off for almost 3 years take it like this my normal size clothing was 5-7l for shirts and pants size was really big now adays I'm a 3xlt-3 with space still and I've lost well I think over or at least a dozen pants sizes IIRC  high 50's now mid to low 40's ),

now adays during each semester I try a new sport from running on the hills to martial arts to now basketball( starting to predict where the ball goes to get the rebound and being 6'2 helps alot) I always try to be active now I need to tone my muscles with weight lifting I'm sure that if I did that all would be better most of my flab turn to abs and I'm already a strong guy, but getting strong and buffer never hurts. As for being hairy my most hairy part is my beard I do have hair on me but not awhole lot you would be surprised I'm no bigfoot  :P .

And I try to dress sharp because you know girls love a man who know how to dress well.


I guess I've never seen the product of dark meeting so-much-light, just assumed. :p Maybe it would work out all right and I'll meet my chocolate dreamgirl. :o At Best Buy the other day I wanted to jump over the counter and steal the major cutie working the register. Gorgeous smile on that one.

My pops is white and my ma is black  8)  this comment makes me laugh


I like non-ghetto black women


You have no idea how it is in california( in the valley) since I was achild I have had bad experiences with ghetto black women I kind of have a scar from this which kind of makes me not like black women( especially in a romantic way).  I never understood why they picked on me like thay did or said the stuff they did it left a horrible feeling in my and for the most part I just was never accepted by the black community it's kind of changed over the years but that initial feeling man I was like the only one of my kind felt kind of lonely( For  a along time I never really meshed well with my peers) it was either you were pure white, black, asian, hispanic, but not me I was different and  you know what I'm proud of it I got the best of both worlds right in me  ;D and one day my three children will have that as well  :)


Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Rugal on March 17, 2013, 08:00:34 AM
South Florida

There's your problem. I lived in South Florida my entire life and from my experience, most women down here are absolutely detestable, materialistic, and self entitled in every way.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: darkmanx_429 on March 17, 2013, 08:53:42 AM
There's your problem. I lived in South Florida my entire life and from my experience, most women down here are absolutely detestable, materialistic, and self entitled in every way.
You beat me to it...lol
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lashen on March 17, 2013, 09:29:56 AM
Probably doesn't help that I'm most attracted to pale-skinned, red-headed, pagan/Wiccan, artsy, hippie chicks.

Congratulations, you've just identified 3/4 of the women I've dated. Really though, hope someone catches onto you—loneliness sucks.

You're more likely to find someone of that type in the Midwest or Northeast (at least that's where they seem to congregate).
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: X on March 17, 2013, 11:33:37 AM
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Probably doesn't help that I'm most attracted to pale-skinned, red-headed, pagan/Wiccan, artsy, hippie chicks.

Got to places like England, Scotland, and Ireland and you are sure to be inundated with these types of women.  ;)

I myself have been finding that lately, more and more I want to have a special someone in my life too. 33 years old and I've never ever been on a single date. Never had my first kiss and never even had sex yet. Part of that was due to me being seen as an outsider growing up with a disability. It make the people around you think your some kind of reject. Nobody was willing to give me a chance so I accepted it. I remained outside and virtually alone. I had some friends over the years who were just like me, but there was never any woman who decided to ask me out. So I'm still waiting for 'her' to appear and drag me out of my suffering. Unfortunately my taste in women is very, very specific. I like them tall. 6 feet or taller. Not slanky or thin, but large like an Amazon woman. A well-built sporty body with voluptuous curves (large breasts and wide hips with a narrow waistline). Green eyes like the color of spring grass or Emeralds. The kind of eyes that reflect clarity and intelligence. White hair. I'm talking white without any hint of blond coloration in it (like snow). Short or long, it doesn't matter. Deep, deep copper tone natural skin tan, almost borderline African color without her being African. A mature and slender face with high cheeks like Asians and a mix of Latino and Egyptian facial features. Those are just the physical characteristics. As for what she would be like on the inside, I'd have to say someone like me only just the apposite. What I am missing she would bring into my life as I would do the same for her. In terms of us having kids? No. I want only a woman in my life as I can't deal with children. I wish to find a woman who's naturally infertile and is okay with that. someone who actually understands that she just wasn't born to have children but only wants companionship like me. As you have read and will probably guess, I've set the bar really, REALLY high for the type of woman that I want in my life. Whether or not she actually exists I may never know. But I can say this; I would not be happy with just any kind woman as I'm not that kind of guy.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Gunlord on March 17, 2013, 12:45:52 PM
Honestly, my friend, I wouldn't encourage you to get back in the dating game. I'm 25 and I've never had an IRL girlfriend...and I'm pretty happy. Is the bachelor life really that bad? You can keep your house however you like it, do whatever you want, sleep, drink, and eat however you want without worry about being nagged, no woman's drama or complaining eating away at you...doesn't seem bad at all.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Dark Nemesis on March 17, 2013, 02:15:07 PM
Well, i was in the hunt for some years, dated the most weird women's you could find or the sluttiest, so i ended a year ago, stop chasing for any girlfriend and leave my life, the way i want.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: TheouAegis on March 17, 2013, 05:22:02 PM
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I'm starting to feel the need to share some of myself with someone.

Hooker or sperm bank. All I can say. Every one of my experiences with women has led me to believe Grand Theft Auto is the way of the world, or at least it should be. Fuck'em. Kill'em. Get your money back. At least my last one returned my ring without me having to club her over the head for it.

With a pseudonym like Inccubus, you would think it shouldn't be hard for you to get back into the game.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 07:25:47 PM
Hooker or sperm bank.

I would rather prefer the old fashioned way. A woman needs no tube or vial or whatever is used they need a man and like wise we need a woman.

I'll stay away from hookers and find my girl and do what we are suppose to do.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Inccubus on March 17, 2013, 08:07:21 PM
Swap out certain parts of that with 'strawberry blonde' & 'open minded Christian' & you have wittle ol' me. :3

My ex is a strawberry-blonde!  O_O ... *Drops dead.* XP ... Just kidding! I'm sure your hair is beautiful and I wouldn't hold any similarity to my ex against you. :P


You both seem like upstanding gents, for reals. I'm sure you'll find the Alice to your Alan Wake someday.

Aww, thanks! +1 for you! :3


I think you just described me  :P

Ha! I was thinking the same thing! Only I'm Cuban of Romanian descent. (In my mind I like to hold on to the remote possibility that I might be distantly related to Prince Dracula.) I don't have the olive, though and my grandfather was a Sasquatch. (Fortunately I'm not nearly as bad as he was.) I've pretty much always been a slightly over weight too. Turning 30 didn't help that at all and about to become 35 it isn't getting much better. I also try to be active to thwart my metabolism deciding it's better to store fat than burn it for energy. (Damn you, metabolism! Damn you!!) Never been into sports, though. I prefer exercise and dancing. Oh, and I often get mistaken for being Arabic. People say it's because of my eyes, but I dunno.


There's your problem. I lived in South Florida my entire life and from my experience, most women down here are absolutely detestable, materialistic, and self entitled in every way.

This is true for the majority of everyone down here; men, women, native, immigrants. It must be something in the water that I'm immune to.


With a pseudonym like Inccubus, you would think it shouldn't be hard for you to get back into the game.

Getting into the game isn't an issue. However, finding any kind of a quality woman in my area is. I don't stress about it much though. I know it'll happen eventually. But I have definitely been enjoying being a bachelor.




Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Jorge D. Fuentes on March 17, 2013, 08:12:11 PM
Hooker or sperm bank. All I can say. Every one of my experiences with women has led me to believe Grand Theft Auto is the way of the world, or at least it should be. Fuck'em. Kill'em. Get your money back. At least my last one returned my ring without me having to club her over the head for it.

With a pseudonym like Inccubus, you would think it shouldn't be hard for you to get back into the game.

I find your misogyny disturbing.  That post is almost borderline psycho behavior (even if you could do it in the game.  Since I get the reference I can see what you meant, but an outsider reading this might think you're disturbed).

I know some women in your life did you wrong... but you might want to seek Therapy or something.  That was too strong.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 08:20:52 PM
Hmm I have a question for you guys and girls too.

How do you handle rejection or breaking up.

How painful is it?

It must be a really horrible feeling.

How does one brace themself for it?
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Jorge D. Fuentes on March 17, 2013, 08:27:47 PM
Rejection is a part of life.
You get rejected for a job if there was another candidate who was picked.
You get rejected in a sport if you appear to not be as competent as someone else.
You get rejected by peers in school because peers at times are clouded by clique attitudes and peer pressure.

Sooooo to answer your question: You've been rejected all your life, and rejection will continue to happen.
With all ways of it you buck up and move on.  People have their own ways:

-Assume the other person didn't pick you because they have terrible taste
-imagine the other person will have a terrible next relationship by choosing someone who you feel was not as good to them as you would have been.
-Find someone better, less crazy, or a better fit for you.
-Drown your sorrow in alcohol.
-Invest your newfound free time into a hobby and improve yourself.
-Copious amounts of pornography.
...and many others!

...everyone has their own thing.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 08:30:40 PM
Rejection is a part of life.
You get rejected for a job if there was another candidate who was picked.
You get rejected in a sport if you appear to not be as competent as someone else.
You get rejected by peers in school because peers at times are clouded by clique attitudes and peer pressure.

Sooooo to answer your question: You've been rejected all your life, and rejection will continue to happen.
With all ways of it you buck up and move on.  People have their own ways:

-Assume the other person didn't pick you because they have terrible taste
-imagine the other person will have a terrible next relationship by choosing someone who you feel was not as good to them as you would have been.
-Find someone better, less crazy, or a better fit for you.
-Drown your sorrow in alcohol.
-Invest your newfound free time into a hobby and improve yourself.
-Copious amounts of pornography.
...and many others!

...everyone has their own thing.

It's interesting to hear how folk deal with things like these  and stuff. Man I remember when  got rejected at prom well over a dozen times but dammit I won in the end I tell ya  :D
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 17, 2013, 08:34:43 PM
Rejection is a part of life.
You get rejected for a job if there was another candidate who was picked.
You get rejected in a sport if you appear to not be as competent as someone else.
You get rejected by peers in school because peers at times are clouded by clique attitudes and peer pressure.

Sooooo to answer your question: You've been rejected all your life, and rejection will continue to happen.
With all ways of it you buck up and move on.  People have their own ways:

-Assume the other person didn't pick you because they have terrible taste
-imagine the other person will have a terrible next relationship by choosing someone who you feel was not as good to them as you would have been.
-Find someone better, less crazy, or a better fit for you.
-Drown your sorrow in alcohol.
-Invest your newfound free time into a hobby and improve yourself.
-Copious amounts of pornography.
...and many others!

...everyone has their own thing.

Jorge..... I love you. lol XP
No really, i totally agree what you said! Except for "drowning your sorrow in alcohol", cause i don't think it would kill the pain for complete... :P
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Inccubus on March 17, 2013, 08:41:45 PM
Hmm I have a question for you guys and girls too.

How do you handle rejection or breaking up.

How painful is it?

It must be a really horrible feeling.

How does one brace themself for it?

You don't. It happens. You deal with your emotions as best you can and eventually you move on when you're ready. I was with my ex for over 6 years. I married her intending to be with her for the rest of my life. I was devastated when it ended. I hurt for a long time and set my sights on making myself better. In a way being selfish helped me quite a bit. What I mean by that is I made my life about me again since, while I was with her, my life became about her.


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Boob talk.

I love 'em all!! But I do have an upper and lower limit. Not so small you look like a pre-teen boy, and not so big that you look like a caricature of yourself.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Jorge D. Fuentes on March 17, 2013, 08:52:23 PM
@Lone Wolf:
Everyone has their own thing and way to cope with unpleasant moments. ;)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 09:07:27 PM
You don't. It happens. You deal with your emotions as best you can and eventually you move on when you're ready. I was with my ex for over 6 years. I married her intending to be with her for the rest of my life. I was devastated when it ended. I hurt for a long time and set my sights on making myself better. In a way being selfish helped me quite a bit. What I mean by that is I made my life about me again since, while I was with her, my life became about her.


I love 'em all!! But I do have an upper and lower limit. Not so small you look like a pre-teen boy.

Man...  :(

And boobs are boobs yet, I do not want a flatboard. I like smaller chests not a complete flat one.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Laina on March 17, 2013, 09:10:49 PM
@Lone Wolf:
Everyone has their own thing and way to cope with unpleasant moments. ;)

Quite true. I've done very "questionable" things while coping with break-ups (2 major ones in my life). For the first one, it was like I had completely detached from myself; it sounds cliched, but I was outside of myself, looking in. I was so very destructive, lashing out at everyone around me. Looking back on it, I'm truly ashamed of myself, but at least I learned & grew from the ordeal.

 Break-up number 2 I handled better I suppose-it was much more internalized, but I still fell back on the old self destructive habits like before, just different ones this time. I won't go into detail, but again I deeply regret it all. Fortunately, I also learned & grew as a person from this one as well. It's been a long, hard road, but I'm actually happy in a way to be where I am now & to have the knowledge these experiences brought with them. I never wanna do it again, but I'm glad I made it through it & can have what I have now. It gives me hope for the future in a way...
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 09:15:59 PM
Quite true. I've done very "questionable" things while coping with break-ups (2 major ones in my life). For the first one, it was like I had completely detached from myself; it sounds cliched, but I was outside of myself, looking in. I was so very destructive, lashing out at everyone around me. Looking back on it, I'm truly ashamed of myself, but at least I learned & grew from the ordeal.

 Break-up number 2 I handled better I suppose-it was much more internalized, but I still fell back on the old self destructive habits like before, just different ones this time. I won't go into detail, but again I deeply regret it all. Fortunately, I also learned & grew as a person from this one as well. It's been a long, hard road, but I'm actually happy in a way to be where I am now & to have the knowledge these experiences brought with them. I never wanna do it again, but I'm glad I made it through it & can have what I have now. It gives me hope for the future in a way...

Break ups suck  :( 

I'll say right now this is one of the most interesting threads in a while just so much different experiences or experiences to be,  visions of what folks want in a man or woman it's very insightful.   :)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 17, 2013, 09:19:14 PM
I just didn't recovered and here am I. Yeah this sucks.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Shiroi Koumori on March 17, 2013, 09:20:40 PM
In all aspects of rejection, the most important thing is for you to rise up and face the new day instead of wallowing in the past.
Yes, things would hurt for quite sometime (cope with whatever you please as long as you don't go on the destructive), but always remember injuries would heal in time and learning from experiences makes us grow into a better person.

I might sound cliched here, but that is how I deal with things.

This might help too:

Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.

© Max Ehrmann 1927
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 17, 2013, 09:28:15 PM
I'm just so eager. 

 
I just didn't recovered and here am I. Yeah this sucks.

Well at least you met some good folk here I hope.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Laina on March 17, 2013, 09:58:25 PM
Desiderata

That was beautiful, Shiroi. Thank you for posting it. We should have a thread dedicated to poetry/literature that we enjoy, or maybe an "inspirational literature" thread. Not in the religious sense (though that would be accepted & respected), but in the sense that it speaks to you on deeper levels & uplifts you.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Inccubus on March 17, 2013, 10:47:35 PM
That's a good idea. Go for it!
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: TheouAegis on March 17, 2013, 11:07:34 PM
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-1

Pfft. Lovers gonna hate. 8)

As for rejection, so far it's been find something to fault her (or him if it's the other way around) at and cite that as a reason you're better off without her (or him). The more faults you can cite, the quicker it will be to get over. ... Unfortunately, this has the one drawback of making you start noticing the faults in everyone before you even go out with them, but that's nothing a cute face and bubble-butt won't help you get over.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Abnormal Freak on March 18, 2013, 11:54:51 PM
I find your misogyny disturbing.  That post is almost borderline psycho behavior (even if you could do it in the game.  Since I get the reference I can see what you meant, but an outsider reading this might think you're disturbed).

I know some women in your life did you wrong... but you might want to seek Therapy or something.  That was too strong.

I figured someone would get upset at that post, but am I the only one who takes Theou's posts with a grain of salt? Half the time it sounds like he's just shitting around.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 19, 2013, 12:08:41 PM
Me too AF, I know that he is over-exaggerating on purpose and Im pretty new here, its common sense.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Jorge D. Fuentes on March 19, 2013, 09:46:17 PM
I figured someone would get upset at that post, but am I the only one who takes Theou's posts with a grain of salt? Half the time it sounds like he's just shitting around.

Those " just shitting around" days are over.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Abnormal Freak on March 19, 2013, 11:07:43 PM
lolwut? Is that a threat to moderate the hell out of certain posts? Or has Theou advanced beyond troll and into SuperSeriousHater?
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 19, 2013, 11:17:23 PM
@Lone Wolf:
Everyone has their own thing and way to cope with unpleasant moments. ;)

Ditto. But i used to drink coffee instead. xP
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Jorge D. Fuentes on March 20, 2013, 03:41:20 AM
lolwut? Is that a threat to moderate the hell out of certain posts? Or has Theou advanced beyond troll and into SuperSeriousHater?

The change has already happened, Freak.  Look around.  There are very few 'just playing around' posts (which is just a clever way to be an ass while tiptoeing around the rules).  It is not a threat... it is reality.
It's just enforcing the rules that were already in place.

@Lone Wolf:
Coffee is great. I've never heard of that being used as a coping aid, though.
I've been with some great women, and a few crazy ones.  Right now I'm at that point where I don't need anyone, but I go on the occasional date.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: son_the_vampire on March 20, 2013, 05:36:54 AM
i think an occasional date/ get together is all one needs who has a focus on something other than a relationship. This way you are not going to miss all the qualities the opposite gender has to offer. I mean it is human nature but at the same time if you spend countless hours trying to get the attention of one person, think about that time being used for your own benefit.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 11:54:22 AM
The change has already happened, Freak.  Look around.  There are very few 'just playing around' posts (which is just a clever way to be an ass while tiptoeing around the rules).  It is not a threat... it is reality.
It's just enforcing the rules that were already in place.

@Lone Wolf:
Coffee is great. I've never heard of that being used as a coping aid, though.
I've been with some great women, and a few crazy ones.  Right now I'm at that point where I don't need anyone, but I go on the occasional date.

Nah, i drink coffee often, it's a habit. lol :P
Btw, can't say i have that luck with women. But i try not to think about it. I don't believe in luck, but still would like to meet someone. I don't mind having a girlfriend, just so i'm not the kind of guy who runs after them. I'm a passive person, always on my own.
And yeah.... I'm often alone, if not with family, at home. Schoolmates? I don't see anyone interested in me. As i said before, i'd better not think about that. The more i do it, the worse i can get, and so on. But i don't suffer or anything. I'm fine, even alone. How do they call it... Solitude? It's like being alone, but even when you're that way, you know you are still strong, and can beat anything. It feels good. I don't have problems in dealing with that. Just saying, btw.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 21, 2013, 12:54:22 PM
I'm a passive person

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Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Rugal on March 21, 2013, 04:43:36 PM
Hmm I have a question for you guys and girls too.

How do you handle rejection or breaking up.

How painful is it?

It must be a really horrible feeling.

How does one brace themself for it?

Play Castlevania or Metal Gear..

Seriously, that's how I used to do it.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 21, 2013, 05:09:59 PM
But its not so conforting if you end with Otacon in MGS1, so try to resist the torture.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 08:34:58 PM
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lol No, dude. I'm really quiet. I often stay on the corner, although i'm still very friendly. :)
But nvm that, i'll just not think about it anymore. I don't think there is someone who can understand me.. I'm a... complicated person...
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 08:44:38 PM
Nah, i drink coffee often, it's a habit. lol :P
Btw, can't say i have that luck with women. But i try not to think about it. I don't believe in luck, but still would like to meet someone. I don't mind having a girlfriend, just so i'm not the kind of guy who runs after them. I'm a passive person, always on my own.
And yeah.... I'm often alone, if not with family, at home. Schoolmates? I don't see anyone interested in me. As i said before, i'd better not think about that. The more i do it, the worse i can get, and so on. But i don't suffer or anything. I'm fine, even alone. How do they call it... Solitude? It's like being alone, but even when you're that way, you know you are still strong, and can beat anything. It feels good. I don't have problems in dealing with that. Just saying, btw.

Honestly I'm placid and somewhat laid back as well, but I have started to go aftersome there are not going to come toward you because you have to go toward them and I believe that I am confident enough to do this.

For instance there is this one italian girl in my basketball class I did try to flirt with her, and I did say to her that she is really cute and she did not say no or anything mean, I think she knows I'm interested in her from that comment and well... Next time I'm going to ask for her number  8)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 21, 2013, 09:05:27 PM
lol No, dude. I'm really quiet. I often stay on the corner, although i'm still very friendly. :)
But nvm that, i'll just not think about it anymore. I don't think there is someone who can understand me.. I'm a... complicated person...

I understood, Im only kidding.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 09:17:32 PM
Honestly I'm placid and somewhat laid back as well, but I have started to go aftersome there are not going to come toward you because you have to go toward them and I believe that I am confident enough to do this.

For instance there is this one italian girl in my basketball class I did try to flirt with her, and I did say to her that she is really cute and she did not say no or anything mean, I think she knows I'm interested in her from that comment and well... Next time I'm going to ask for her number  8)

Cool! 8)
Anyways, do as you wish. I bet each person's got a different way of meeting someone in their lives.

Although, i always heard of people here that flirting with someone in the internet seems dangerous and somewhat...
I believe not. I have met good persons in here. Friends, and even girls i saw around. Still dangerous? A little? Not so much, since the point when you know them enough to conclude they're not such a bad company as people from real life always say...
I mean.. Well, i'll be honest. I wouldn't mind if i could ever have a girlfriend on the Web, since we both trusted each other enough. Yeah, it would be awesome... :)

I understood, Im only kidding.

It's okay! ^^
I was feeling bad a bit while ago, but now i'm okay. Wow, this place totally lifts you up... :P
And again, i think you guys are all crazy. I like this place. ;D
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 09:30:30 PM
Cool! 8)
Anyways, do as you wish. I bet each person's got a different way of meeting someone in their lives.

Although, i always heard of people here that flirting with someone in the internet seems dangerous and somewhat...
I believe not. I have met good persons in here. Friends, and even girls i saw around. Still dangerous? A little? Not so much, since the point when you know them enough to conclude they're not such a bad company as people from real life always say...
I mean.. Well, i'll be honest. I wouldn't mind if i could ever have a girlfriend on the Web, since we both trusted each other enough. Yeah, it would be awesome... :)

It's okay! ^^
I was feeling bad a bit while ago, but now i'm okay. Wow, this place totally lifts you up... :P
And again, i think you guys are all crazy. I like this place. ;D

Thanks and yeah I think we all like each other. Sometime there is bad but hey you try to look foward from that.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 09:39:08 PM
Thanks and yeah I think we all like each other. Sometime there is bad but hey you try to look foward from that.

Sure do! ;P
But hey, this is a Castlevania forum. If there's a problem up ahead, we just "whipe" it out. lol ;)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 09:56:09 PM
Sure do! ;P
But hey, this is a Castlevania forum. If there's a problem up ahead, we just "whipe" it out. lol ;)

True or burn it with holy fire  :P  ;)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 10:27:57 PM
True or burn it with holy fire  :P  ;)

I use axes. But that's fine, too! lol :P
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 10:29:13 PM
I use axes. But that's fine, too! lol :P

All right... All right  :)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 10:37:03 PM
All right... All right  :)

But hey, what do you think about having a girlfriend on the Web? Have you ever, you know..? Had one? lol :P
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 10:39:34 PM
But hey, what do you think about having a girlfriend on the Web? Have you ever, you know..? Had one? lol :P

Nope  :)

I  have never used online dating sites and I do not plan to any time soon.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 10:46:31 PM
Nope  :)

I  have never used online dating sites and I do not plan to any time soon.

Oh... And how are things with that italian girl you've met, if you don't mind me asking? ^^
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 21, 2013, 10:48:56 PM
Oh... And how are things with that italian girl you've met, if you don't mind me asking? ^^

She was not there today, but I'll see next week, gotta ask for the number  :P

What's the worst that can happen no? Got to try.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 21, 2013, 11:37:54 PM
She was not there today, but I'll see next week, gotta ask for the number  :P

What's the worst that can happen no? Got to try.

Yeah, i think you're right.. :P
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Inccubus on March 24, 2013, 08:22:45 PM
I met four girls this weekend from Canada. Two of them are originally from Iraq. They were hot. I had a good weekend.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 24, 2013, 09:12:22 PM
I met four girls this weekend from Canada. Two of them are originally from Iraq. They were hot. I had a good weekend.


Family Guy "Oh Yeah" Kool-Aid Man Parody (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfLcC1o85bo#ws)

I missed my chance with the corona girls I had to do math. My weekend not so good  :(
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 02:25:28 PM
Corona girls?
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 03:12:59 PM
Corona girls?


Yeah

About time I joined the party  8)


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Yeah I am the big guy...   :)

Every now and then right down the street from where I live half naked girls appear.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 03:27:53 PM
Corona is the name of a beer or what?
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 03:41:28 PM
Corona is the name of a beer or what?

yep

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Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 03:44:51 PM
Im shocked, since its one of the names that I used in my chars in RPG games and IIRC correctly its the name of one magic in some game.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 03:47:14 PM
Im shocked, since its one of the names that I used in my chars in RPG games and IIRC correctly its the name of one magic in some game.

Yep it's also a beer and you know, hence what I said :P
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 04:04:27 PM
No I didnt knew, I asked because I've read beer behind you in this photo.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 04:20:20 PM
No I didnt knew, I asked because I've read beer behind you in this photo.


 Okay after all, knowing is half the battle.   ;D
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 05:54:44 PM
I dont understand what are you trying to say. :/
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 06:08:02 PM
I dont understand what are you trying to say. :/


Knowing is half the Battle (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pele5vptVgc#)


I made a mistake I was
Yep it's also a beer and you know, hence what I said :P

I meant to say "and now you know"  silly me   :-[  for some reason I did not type "and".  Also and hence what I said, corona girls. And knowing half the battle.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 06:19:03 PM
Now I understood lol
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Neobelmont on March 25, 2013, 06:20:29 PM
Now I understood lol

That took some time    ;D sorry.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 25, 2013, 06:27:13 PM
Because you have eaten some words, but yes xD
Now that G.I. Joe reference I never would know without you pointing that.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: TheouAegis on March 25, 2013, 09:35:43 PM
And one more for old time's sake!
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I think i'll get a shirt with that and hit on the first girl that recognizes it.
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 26, 2013, 01:50:04 AM
About time I joined the party  8)


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Yeah I am the big guy...   :)

Badass.. XP

"Welcome... What're you sellin'?"
Strenjah: *sells some gals*
"Is that all, strenjah? Heheheha, thank you! Come back anytime...." 8)
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lelygax on March 26, 2013, 01:56:46 AM
I spotted C.V. in this photo right now, good to know that they like CV too lol
Title: Re: I think I need a 'girl-friend'.
Post by: Lone Wolf on March 26, 2013, 02:26:02 AM
I spotted C.V. in this photo right now, good to know that they like CV too lol

Lol You're not the only one who spotted that. x)