Topic: Really like her, but don't know how to make it work

[Belmontoya]

It doesn't have to be that complicated. Just tell the other girl that you just want to be friends. You don't have to say anything about the other girl or explain anything else. There is no nice way to tell her that you're choosing someone else over her, so I wouldn't bother taking that route.

If the two girls are friends then you won't really have a choice. But if they don't know each other or only hang out once and a while, then it won't be a problem. Just date the other girl and let her find out when she finds out.

This way you don't have to lie to her, and you don't have to tell her about the other girl, which would only throw salt onto her wounds if she takes it hard.

Good luck! 
 

[zangetsu468]

Montoya is 100% right my friend.
Unless the gals are good friends outside of you, I wouldn't bring it up.

There's being honest and there's giving away too much info.
When relationships start out, nobody is exclusive or bound by anything - there are no rules or contracts - it's all a blank canvas.

Rules should only be made by two people when they care enough about one another to make them commit to one person, again this doesn't mean it has to be after 3 days or 3 months (no rules to this either!)

You have the right to pursue happiness and if you believe one person will make you happier than another, you should pursue this.