I'm married. And I have a kid.
So drinking isn't much of an option. And I don't have time for much porn. My wife and I both work full time, opposite schedules. This means when I'm not working, I taking care of my kid. So I can't do a lot of the things I used to find fun. I like playing games, and my kid likes pushing the power button right before I get to that save point. I like playing guitar, and my kid likes pulling on guitar strings til they snap. I like painting, and my kid likes to eat the canvas and dump the paint on the carpet.
Caffeine, on the other hand, is mandatory. I hate being hooked on anything, but I don't have much of a choice. Because my kid doesn't like to sleep, and if I sleep while he's up, he'll find a way to burn the house down.
This, apparently, is adult life.
I'm married and have a 4 year old daughter.
My wife works part time and I work full time as a union carpenter.
Typical day I get up at 5am, get home from work at 4pm. Play with my kid until dinner around 6, do the dishes, get my daughter ready for bed. As soon as she's in bed, usually around 10, I work on the soundtrack for CV Lecarde Chronicles 2 for an hour or two, get to bed around midnight, sleep for 4 to 5 hours, repeat.
I live on coffee.
It's an insane schedule and I have to make sacrifices to my health to make it work. But I wouldn't trade it for the world.
My daughter is an angel, and even though it can be difficult when she wants me to take her to the park when I'm physically exhausted, or when she spills her milk the second I sit down to eat my dinner, I realize that when she's grown up I'll miss the times she needed her daddy and wanted me with her all the time.
It is an incredibly difficult life being a parent and husband, but it's also incredibly rewarding.
We are the lucky ones man. No one needs to feel sorry for us.