Nice try. It's called cultural racism (islamaphobia). Keep trying to justify your hate man. Like I said, it's amusing. Especially when you fancy yourself to be teaching people.
Don't move the goalposts. You specified Racism. It is not. Also, "Islamophobia" is entirely justified. because last i checked, Buddhists didn't declare holy war against the west. Jews aren't blowing up busses or buildings in the name of God. And Christians aren't decapitating people for being Gay.
It is entirely reasonable to be "phobic" of a culture that is entirely opposed to your own. Islam as a culture and Political system, (sharia) has no place in western society, because it is entirely incompatible with what we consider western values. The issue is that in the countries that many of these people come from, there is NO distinction between the church and state. Sure in the US we put "In God we Trust" on money and swear on the bible, but realistically, we still have a reasonable separation of church and state. In places like Saudi Arabia, there is no difference. The law is not a separate document- the law IS the holy book. And when the entire population's culture is also based on the same holy book, then trying to integrate into the west proves challenging, because it means abandoning a part of your religion. It means accepting Democracy and Separation of Church and State over Islam. And they don't want to accept that, because that's like asking a Christian to stop being Christian. And this has only gotten worse over the past decade, as Saudi Arabia has taken over the narrative, and pushed it's ultra conservative version of Islam on the Muslim world. all the Imams are educated in Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia publishes all the Qurans. And it teaches that the Quran has to be followed 100% to the letter or you are an infidel. Before, we didnt really have this problem. Muslim countries in the middle east like, Iraq, say, or Egypt, were, despite being Islamic, mostly secular. Because their respective dictators were mostly secular, and thus pushed that. So the people who immigrated from those countries, were mostly secular, they ddint take their book 100% at face value, the same way most Christians dont take their religion 100% seriously.
This is the issue here. There is a solid wall preventing proper integration. I mean, I've seen American muslims who have been here for decades, who have suddenly become hardline conservatives, now Imagine how someone being ripped from their country because of war, and just dropped in the middle of a decadent society will feel? Do you think they'll be willing to "assimilate" to gay marriage, or secularism? where porn is freely accessible on the internet, and women can dress as skimpily as they want?
TL;DR, it's not a "phobia" if there's something to genuinely be scared of. we can't seriously talk about Muslims in America and their integration into western culture without having a serious discussion about the radicalization of the religion as a whole, and how it is tied with culture and politics in it's homeland.