That's fair, and that's fine.
Shit like "I bet he cries and has to fix his eyeliner" is not an admission of a variance of opinion, and suggests that some people have more deep-seated problems with effeminate men doing the same badass shit as macho-man previous incarnations.
We say what we mean, after all. I like macho rugged Simon as much as the next guy, but I don't fabricate bullshit reasons to dislike more effeminate (or really, not even more effeminate, just less Schwarzenegger) designs on face value alone.
Having a difference of opinion doesn't indicate masculinity problems. Flipping shit and dishing out stereotyped insults towards effeminate male characters as if only burly rugged macho men are capable of enacting baddass feats of strength and power does.
So either some of y'all do a really shitty job of explaining your preferences, or what I said previously stands. Given the outlandish levels of unjustified hatred for certain elements the fanbase has produced and the levels some fans will go to to rationalize, justify, and otherwise enact said unjustified hatreds over the decade I've been in it (cough cough waah I hate IGA he ruined the franchise cough cough), I'm inclined to lean towards the latter.
Hopefully you can understand why.