Alright, lemme break down my train of thought after I read this post:
"Huh, Shiroi's getting a 3DS XL. Good for her! I think she'll enjoy it. Let's see...she seems very soft spoken, sweet, feminine-I'm gonna vote for pink. Oh, wait-she says she already has a pink one. That's what made me decide to get a blue one when I purchased mine-my little darling pink DS. Man, that bubblegum pink is adorable though! I felt somehow cuter & more ladylike just holding the darn thing. She seems to already have that going for her though, not a little rough around the edges like me. If it were for me personally, I'd go with the pink again, but this is hers. Hmm...I could see her in red too though the more I think about it actually. It'd be something new & bold for her & she's already said she likes it. Black borders are a smidge easier on the eyes too like Abnormal Freak said. Uuuugggghhhhh...tough call. Okay, okay, final decision-red. It'll be new, bold & fresh to her, easy on the eyes & red can easily be gender neutral. Yeah, the more I think about it, the more I could see her with it. Red!" *click*
Enjoy my lady perspective.