Ah politics, the great divider!
Yeah, it's pretty sad what's happening. Sometimes though, something bad has to happen before people can wake up to address it. It would be a mistake for me to call it black & white, but my sympathies lie more with the Democrats.
The majority of voters in the US don't side with either party so much as decide on a case by case basis who they prefer. The cycle of popularity/power recently shifted back over to Democrats, and as a result the Republicans are scrambling to influence things any way they can. Pure Government to me should not be influenced by money, power, religion, or even individual ideology, but should be about service first and foremost, in service of the people- hopefully the majority. Of course the practical reality is another story, but public perception has been that the Republican party is more self-interested. I personally believe they miscalculated there position, the Democrats won't budge either and so now people are basically suffering for it.
I think Health Care Reform was something this country very badly needed, and for better or worse it's now the law. I think pissing about over it is a mistake. No, it's not perfect and there has been and will continue to be growing pains, but to not allow it to succeed would be a mistake. On one level I can't blame them since Obama basically represents everything their against, but I guess the real question is, which party should bend?